wellareyousure
> we let a 90 yr old with dementia/diatebetes/etc. pass with dignity.
Often it's a 4 week old baby.
For every 1 sophisticated family member, there are 19 unsophisticated ones, who toss a weighted coin and, if it's heads, they decide they want their dying, non-responsive relative - possibly their baby, possibly their mom, etc. - to be kept alive at all costs. I don't know if this is politically toxic as much as it is cultural, and possibly globally cultural.
I don't have any way to talk about your specific situation.
If you're asking, "how can you generalize broadly about" what sounds like big company problems. Maybe as this economic reshuffling / contraction continues, I expect those big company problems to go away via "reduction in force." Because if your folks - superior, subordinates, whatever - couldn't figure out a system to get you focused on programming, which is your valuable elite skill, for the last X years, they aren't going to to have the wisdom suddenly to do it now, in reaction to an equities crisis.
And isn't that exactly what's happening?
I’m not saying he’s making a strategically wise move. But there are potentially another 100,000 developers in this industry who are in meaningful jeopardy over their jobs, because they are truly bad at it.
The one time I tried this as a manager, I was so fucking wrong. We don’t ever, ever want B players on an A team. You don’t get it, because nothing has ever been at stake for you.