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B. Are they really newbie? Did they do 5 years of work in obscurity, and you just saw the point where they broke through?
C. Community glory tends to be a 'winner-takes-all-affair'. 8 people get 10% each, 2 people get %40 each. Try to live your life such that such long-shots are capable of enhancing it, rather than depending on it for your happiness.
D. You're not your status in the community. You're a worthwhile person for existing.
All of that is what you should focus on to not be so outcome dependent, and thats what I would suggest focusing on right now. There's also the legitamte question of how to have more of an impact on your chosen field, but I think that would require more ifnromation.
Some of the things that have worked for me:
* Find extroverted people you can tolerate, they can introduce you to a lot more people.
* Find the groups of people who have problems with the tech/startup world but are still interested in tech (Who I'm assuming you're one of), there's a lot of people out there like that and you'll have a lot to talk about.
* If you're not great at conversation, try to focus on just being with people, say something like "I don't really have a lot to say, but I appreicate the company". Find people who want to just be around others.
Ask HN: What are the most prestigious jobs in software?
Thinking of prestige as something separate but often linked with income.
I think in most cases technical talent that would care about these underlying issues would rather try to become open source developers themselves.
2. Undelete facebook, don't read the news feed, let people add you and add people you meet and let them invite you to events.
3. Find out what messaging programs people use (Skype, etc.), install them and keep in touch when possible.
4. Go to meetups about things that interest you.
5. Work on your english. Even better, if at all possible, go to language related meetups and get teach someone your first language in exchange for them improving your english.
6. Lower your standards. When you don't know anyone you can't be super choosy. You can raise your standards after knowing more people.
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