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Oncall being in the job description just doesn’t rationalize the abuse and insanity Ive seen myself and my team go through.
I don’t think a bullet in a job description and expected baseline pay for a tech job is reasonable enough to accept that either.
Oncall is complete bullshit and the fact that we have standardised this without Additional pay has greatly affected my life working in big tech.
I interned there one summer and I felt like 9 years ago when I was there the company died 30 years prior. It’s a super weird place to work
This survey is from a resume site of 1000 people roughly. A resume site is obviously going to target a majority of people in the job hunt. Additionally it was done in May around graduation time.
They are also probably collecting DNS records from millions of customers too or inspecting SNI on TLS handshakes to know what sites each customer is visiting.
ECH and DOH people!
Not worth. Competitors like Bunny CDN which is much smaller will inevitably have a much worse incident as they grow. Every large company will inevitably have a couple bad incidents so asking “what other large company will never have incidents” is a moronic perspective IMO
Orbstack has not yet been enshittified yet
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server_man3000 on Tuesday December 02, 2025 @05:07AM
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Hi HN. I’ve been battling depression for a few years now and have become pretty numb to most things.I’ve tried exercise, sleep, drugs, social events.I think a lot of it has to do with my job, feeling trapped and bound to the golden handcuffs to try and survive this expensive world while being forced to work on things I have little care for. Curious what folks have done to help escape this dark...
+1 for Go after a sabbatical. Its a treat
I’m into cardio related fitness things, but hoping to avoid associating drinking with friendship too much.
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server_man3000 on Friday January 31, 2025 @04:24AM
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Male and 30 moving to UK from USA.
Don’t know anyone there, how should I make friends?I’m a software engineer, but that’s my day job. I’d like to meet fun and exciting people. Curious if others have made a move like this as socializing greatly impacts one’s life in many ways
When I’ve gotten deep into a topic I’ve actually almost ALWAYS learned that textbooks are the best way to learn things.
The internet is full of information. Sometimes it’s too much, unstructured or tangential to the goal at hand. Textbooks, in my experience, are truly written by the experts. It’s been vetted, rigorously reviewed and fact checked. It’s not inspired by influencers or clickbait.
Obviously YMMV, but when you find a top recommended textbook, it’s usually miles beyond a YouTube video or medium blog for deeper level content. It usually flows better and makes more sense as you study consistently.
Can you give an example? I think my current problem is that I can’t formulate a goal that I deep down find motivating enough to attain. Maybe that’s depression, but I’m not sure.
I get that it’s pretty subjective, but I am just curious how people think.
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server_man3000 on Monday October 21, 2024 @10:44PM
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After a few years of sleep deprivation, mix of burn out and stimulants I want to approach this industry (big tech) with some normalcy.I’m realizing I’m wholly unmotivated and easily distracted. How can I improve this long term? I still love tech and development, but having trouble right now focusing and being productive.Without describing my lifestyle, habits and schedule, I’m curious what has...
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server_man3000 on Sunday October 13, 2024 @01:03PM
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I'm looking for advice as my partner is finally looking for a full time job and cannot find one.She has a 4.0 from an Ivy league university, got a perfect score on the SAT, did a masters internationally in a second discipline and then finally got a PhD in biology/ecology with over 23 publications and 18 as first author. She is finishing up her postdoc and needs a job.I don't understand the...
There’s a happy medium somewhere though and the US doesn’t meet it at all. I can’t even take a bus from my neighborhood in a California city to the grocery store in a timely manner and it’s often cancelled
Didn’t this start as unlimited anywhere for 9 euros no strings attached?
I LOVE the German transit system (although Denmark wins in cleanliness). However, Germany is a bit predatory with this new system. You can ONLY purchase this ticket as a subscription model. If you’re a tourist, you must cancel before the 10th of the month or you get auto rebilled.
Additionally, there are so many apps that resell the ticket as some white label system, so it was very confusing to purchase (you cannot buy them at the machines).
The price hike is the wrong direction here if we are reducing that much time on the road. Kudos though for the great rail systems. The USA has a lot to learn here and it’s baffling how terrible it is here. I doubt I’d ever need a car in Germany given the rail system was much more convenient. In the USA I spend 10-15 mins trying to park any time I go anywhere
What’s typical pay like in the UK and how is your life over there?
Thanks for the long reply. How did you go about getting into freelance work? Freelancing seems like the path I’d enjoy, but it gives the feeling of a starving artist, do you feel that way? Also, are you in the USA, I’m curious on how you handle medical insurance.
Truthfully, my expenses are rent (HCOL) and food. I have no debt. I live a modest life in a very expensive city due to my partners job.
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server_man3000 on Saturday October 12, 2024 @01:51PM
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After taking a big tech job during an already deep phase of burnout, I basically have allowed myself to spiral into a 2 year deep depression and it’s getting to a point where going to work makes me physically ill. I’ve tried long vacations, long distance running, biking, socializing, etc. While I can get on a streak of feeling good, work outweighs it 100% of the time after about 2 weeks and I...
How do you get paid articles?
Isn’t it illegal to profit off scraped data from companies like this?
Nice tool btw
My advice is to add some description to the site.
From mobile it looks like some DDOS tool
Your sources are ass man. Yah newsflash, CF is a hosting site and people make phishing pages. This shit is true with literally any cloud provider today that’s relevant on the internet.
Why would STUN compromise e2e? STUN just returns your IP
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server_man3000 on Monday April 15, 2024 @11:13AM
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Reflecting on a vacation right now and wondering best ways to avoid mainstream tech news/social media and still stay relevant.Moreso interested in people who have these ideologies, but still succeed in staying competitive and knowledgeable in new trends/science. Competitive being raw knowledge in necessary topics in the field and not competitive in the sense that you grinded leetcode for a...
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server_man3000 on Monday November 27, 2023 @11:00AM
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How’s the software market for switching jobs looking these days? I’m a senior dev at $BIGTECH living in California looking for a change of scenery. Follow-up, but is the new year the best time to start interviewing due to fiscal planning?
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server_man3000 on Tuesday September 26, 2023 @05:14PM
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Are there any real-time communities like Discord that are friendly and more advanced? I’m having a hard time finding people to discuss cool things I’m learning or building and would love to learn from others and have fun back and forth on software design, etc
It’s a good point. I was on a niche Apache mailing list for a bit and of course I’m talking to the world experts about some niche serialization format from the creator himself et al.
I’m curious if they resent random questions though. For example, if I’m asking Linus about btrees he’s probably going to tell me to fuck off
Mostly the format. It takes more than just people. HN is comments, you don’t get notified and it’s not a typical forum.
I love HN, but I’m looking for more suitable mediums for such discussion