rsedgwick
Then go meta: don’t just do the work, and don’t be looking to find people to become friends with. Ask everyone around you how their day is going. How their week is going. Say you’re sorry when they tell you about the hard week they had or their sick kid or their divorce. When those people need a ride somewhere, offer to drive them.
The rest may come if and when it’s supposed to come. Start by connecting with people and connect by trying to be of service, it’s for your benefit not theirs.
I do think the personal mental health angle matters a lot, but it adds urgency to consider school, banking, etc being dependent on private company memberships.
My local gym did something wonderful. They retained a keyfob-based access system instead of using an app, specifically because the owner knew "someone's going to have a dumbphone and complain they can't get in."
Sometimes those actions are "e-mail a customer back", other times they are "submit a new pull request on some github project" and "file a new Jira ticket." Other times the action might be "blackmail an engineer."
Not saying it's time to freak out over it (or that it's not time to do so). It's just weird to see people go "don't worry, token generators are not experiencing subjectivity or qualia or real thought when they make insane tokens", but then the tokens that come out of those token generators are hooked up to executable programs that do things in non-sandboxed environments.
Maybe it's less convenient and more expensive and onerous. Do good things require hard work? Or did we expect everyone to ignore incentives forever while the trillion-dollar hyperscalers fought for an open and noble internet and then wrapped it in affordable consumer products to our delight?
It reminds me of the post here a few weeks ago about how Netflix used to be good and "maybe I want a faster horse" - we want things to be built for us, easily, cheaply, conveniently, by companies, and we want those companies not to succumb to enshittification - but somehow when the companies just follow the game theory and turn everything into a TikToky neural-networks-maximizing-engagement-infinite-scroll-experience, it's their fault, and not ours for going with the easy path while hoping the corporations would not take the easy path.
Brings a new meaning to dependency injection.
Also... just because I was checking through the results of the paper to see if it was actually an interesting result: "The SHRT binder provided complete protection (100%) to mice . . . . The LNG binder exhibited comparable efficacy, completely neutralizing α‐cobratoxin but not the non-target ScNtx"