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Re:Ask HN: Concise, pragmatic baby manual for first-time dad? on Tuesday February 07, 2023 @06:16AM (#34691301)
Every baby is different take ever piece of advice as possible ideas that might need changing or not even work for your baby
Re:Ask HN: Looking for advice on my situation at work? on Thursday February 02, 2023 @10:12AM (#34627584)
I did this once got the raise etc. The director at the time voiced the opinion that in general people leave anyway in a year or 2 time. I did leave in 1.5 years .
Re:Ask HN: What are we even chasing? on Wednesday January 25, 2023 @11:21AM (#34520179)
The pursuit of outcomes, or the search for fulfillment and satisfaction, is a fundamental aspect of human nature. It is natural to strive for goals and to desire to improve one's circumstances. However, it is also true that the attainment of a goal does not necessarily bring lasting satisfaction. This phenomenon is often referred to as the "hedonic treadmill," where people quickly adapt to new levels of achievement and return to a baseline level of happiness. The key to finding fulfillment in life may lie in finding a balance between setting and working towards goals while also finding contentment in the present moment and cultivating a sense of purpose. Additionally, it's important to be mindful that the pursuit of material things may not bring the ultimate happiness, it's also important to focus on experiences, relationships and personal growth