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In my experience, all of these languages are fairly well equipped to the problem space - even the interpreted/garbage collected ones can handle these problems well as they are (in my experience) infrequently CPU bound, and frequently the scaling considerations come in around your usage of databases and caches (network or IO bound). When you have enough players to hit CPU boundaries, you also typically have enough money to buy some pretty beefy CPUs. The caveat to this is that concurrency gives huge wins, since a lot of the requests/data are not related to each other (beyond the 10-20 people in a game) and so languages or frameworks that don't solve concurrency and/or async IO well are at a disadvantage. This puts Python/Django and Node.js further down the totem for me. Of course, there are ways to resolve those problems even within those languages so they are far from ill-equipped.
When I get my choice, I choose something garbage collected in a VM, with mature web frameworks (basically Java & C#) for online services in games. Knowing an engineer's errant null pointer isn't going to tip over your whole process is pretty handy, and the CPU gains in C++ or Go (native code) aren't put to as good of use here as they are in gameplay engineering where you're trying to squeeze cycles out of client machines. Client machines don't really get more powerful the more players you have, but your servers can, haha.
Below are two articles which I think can be really valuable "Baby's first" for the topics of Multiplayer Gameplay Engineering and Online Services for Games. I wrote them beginning from my perspective of approaching these problems my first time as a college student many years ago, and continued with how my approach evolved through experience. I also include lots of links to seminal articles/talks on the topics that I read as I attempted to "do my homework" while making my own indie game.
Multiplayer Gameplay Engineering https://www.gamasutra.com/blogs/DruErridge/20181004/327885/B...
Online Services for Games https://www.gamebreakingstudios.com/posts/dedicated-game-ser...