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How random ideas turned into real projects just by following my interests and showing up every day. Inspired by Paul Graham's fantastic post How to Do Great Work.

TL;DR: You just need enough curiosity to start - a pinch of courage, a bit of discipline, and a Stoicism book to help you when it gets hard… really hard.

Absolutely, a great addition!

Can't agree - I didn’t base my thoughts on that article. The idea came to me naturally while I was having lunch and realized I instinctively avoided using my phone. That moment made me reflect on the broader issue of being present in whatever we do. It led me to think about how addicted we’ve become to social media, including my own teenage kids, who often spend time just watching TikTok videos.

I’ve now read the article, and I see it touches on similar themes, but that’s expected - we’re discussing the same concepts from different angles. It’s a shared experience, because the issue is real and widely felt.

I think you’ve raised a great topic, and it could serve as the foundation for another post. One study found that the environment plays the most significant role here, especially the nonshared environment (outside siblings/family). This challenges the traditional view that growing up in the same household has a major influence on personality and intelligence.

Source: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3147063/

Yes, for dirt I wouldn't worry at all... but e.g. rodent excrement is quite dangerous: leptospirosis (kidney damage, meningitis, liver failure), hantavirus, salmonella, LCMV. I know, chances are low but I'd be happy to reduce them as much as possible.

Yes, I do. See the following study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3147063/

Personality: ~40-50% genetic influence

Cognition (IQ): ~50% genetic influence in adulthood

Schizophrenia: <50% concordance in identical twins

Psychopathology: Varies, but mostly <50% genetic influence

She is 1.9 years old and anything that looks like food will be bitten. But to tell the truth, you even need to wash bananas: pesticide residues (you can transfer chemicals to your hands and then to the editable part), can collect dirt/bacteria/rodent excrement.

Yes, I mean every parent, but the whole post started with an observation of my youngest child and later expanded to marshmallows, culture, and so on.

She is 1.9 years old and anything that looks like food will be bitten. But to tell the truth you even need to wash bananas: pesticide residues (you can transfer chemicals to your hands and then to the editable part), can collect dirt/bacteria/rodent excrement.

I think your mom did a great job, and that’s the whole point of the post. We need to focus on bonding with our kids and building trust with them. I’m actually a father of three, and being a father to my youngest while being much older is an entirely different experience. I pay attention to all the small details with my kids (which is actually why I wrote that post! ).

I didn't mention race in the post, but culture. I think culture has a significant effect on a person, and to prove my point, I'd refer to the book The Culture Map, which was a revelation for me and explained a lot of things I had noticed while working in a multicultural environment. Genetic factors typically account for about 50% of individual differences in traits like personality, cognition, and psychopathology, leaving the other 50% to environmental influences.

Nah, I'm millennial and not trying to give any advice. Just sharing my observations while talking to my young daughter. Glad that you liked it!

Thanks! Let me know if you find any issues.

I agree. Recently we have started the project where we are trying to allow musicians to experiment with different chords & styles (http://www.songtive.com/songs/new) and displaying relative chords is one of upcoming features.