That other big opensource project (the one called linux) I think would disagree with you, its management style might be different (more of a hierarchy with linus at the top) but saying 'when too many players with overlapping vested interests join in, it will be a disaster' seems disingenuous IMHO.
Why not move to other opensource projects like opennebula.org ? By the way I work for Megam - https://www.megam.io another opensource PaaS project https://github.com/megamsys. Let me know if you are interested in any of those.