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Re:The Lonely End: in aging Japan, thousands die alone and u... by icebraining on Friday June 26, 2015 @08:10PM (#9788463)
I think some people have this fantasy, that they are on their death bed and there is 3 generations weeping around them. Sorry, but is this even true any more?

Well, at least here in my Southern European country, it sure is. While there are many more elderly people dying alone than a couple of decades ago, I'd say most people I know still keep in close contact with their parents and grandparents, and they spend their last days (usually in the hospital) with them.

In fact, that's one thing I always found disconcerting in online conversations with US Americans - the willingness to just move hundreds of miles from their parents and grandparents. I've never considered myself a family-oriented person -I've always disliked family reunions and the "you have to go visit your great-uncle"- but the idea of leaving now, when my grandmothers probably just have a few more years to live, just sounds so ungrateful and selfish :|

Re:The Lonely End: in aging Japan, thousands die alone and u... by vezzy-fnord on Friday June 26, 2015 @09:32PM (#9788708)
In fact, that's one thing I always found disconcerting in online conversations with US Americans - the willingness to just move hundreds of miles from their parents and grandparents.

In practice, this doesn't seem to occur often: http://phys.org/news/2010-05-americans-surprisingly-mothers....

Re:The Lonely End: in aging Japan, thousands die alone and u... by kentt on Friday June 26, 2015 @08:15PM (#9788485)
True where I live as well (Canadian city of ~150,000). I would say the majority of my friends were at their grandparents death bed and would assume the same for their grandchildren.
Re:The Lonely End: in aging Japan, thousands die alone and u... by intended on Saturday June 27, 2015 @03:52AM (#9789431)
No kidding. I'm willing to die alone, but that's because of a legion of horrible experiences. Without those I would be glad to be with people in are about and who care about me in turn.

I've regretted not being able to be there for the passing of one of my grandparents, and in general the entire family has and will be there at their last moments if they can make it. Not to mention doing what we can to ensure that they are taken care of and happy.

Re:The Lonely End: in aging Japan, thousands die alone and u... by TJSomething on Saturday June 27, 2015 @04:51AM (#9789521)
America's a pretty big country. You can drive the 400 miles from where my grandmother lives to where my parents live and the largest city during that drive has a population of fewer than 4,000 people.