Re:Ask HN: I've got a new job but the boss is a bully / abusive
by adamconroy on Thursday June 11, 2015 @03:12AM
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Sounds like you need to laugh at his jokes and follow his orders. Ignore anything relating to others, its not your business and not something to stress about. Think about the adage "keep your friends close and your enemies closer". Flatter him, make him feel good about himself, then down the road when you start biting back a bit it will hurt.
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Re:Ask HN: I've got a new job but the boss is a bully / abusive
by Peroni on Thursday June 11, 2015 @03:16AM
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This is the worst possible advice you could have given.
Attempting to ignore the behaviour is both stressful and damaging.
Re:Ask HN: I've got a new job but the boss is a bully / abusive
by adamconroy on Thursday June 11, 2015 @04:09AM
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I said he should ignore his boss's interactions with others. Do you really think it is healthy for op to be stressing over the fact his boss flirts and is married? I repeat, he should mind his own business.