Japanese Change Trays

Re:Japanese Change Trays by pyre on Wednesday June 03, 2015 @03:54PM (#9655388)

I knew of a couple that went to Japan where the gaijin (her white husband) spoke more Japanese than she did (100% Japanese Canadian). It apparently confused quite a number of people, because they all expect her to start speaking Japanese.

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Re:Japanese Change Trays by timr on Wednesday June 03, 2015 @04:06PM (#9655482)

I've experienced the opposite -- if I go to Europe, I look like everyone else, and the most likely outcome when they discover that I don't speak their language is irritation.

Whenever I go to Asia, I'm treated like a novelty if I speak even a few words.

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Re:Japanese Change Trays by unsignedint on Wednesday June 03, 2015 @04:43PM (#9655713)

The way I feel it works is, if their perception is that you are not one of them you basically get extra credit for that, but if they don't see you that way, then you basically get your points deducted for each of "mistakes" you make.

This really hurts me sometimes, because I know this and put so much effort try to fit in, but I basically get no praise for that, instead, I get nitpicked for noncompliances.

In a case of some individuals like hotel clerks, that I actually spent some time talking, seeing multiple times a day, they totally understand my situation and didn't give me hard time. (And it was tiny hotel, that didn't really caters to foreigner, so it not that the they were used to it -- funny side story is a few year after that -- perhaps when their son took over the business, they've completely changed to cater to foreigners instead :-) )

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Re:Japanese Change Trays by timr on Wednesday June 03, 2015 @06:22PM (#9656263)

Yep. And this has a downside -- expats in Asia tend to complain about "never fitting in" -- but it comes with a bonus dose of forgiveness for all sorts of social problems that the locals have to worry about.

But it's also true that people in the service industry are gruff no matter where you go. It's hard to be pre-school-polite to hundreds of illiterate adults a day.

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Re:Japanese Change Trays by Symbiote on Thursday June 04, 2015 @03:04AM (#9657780)

That's a big generalisation for all of Europe. I look British, if people are really paying attention, or Northern Europe / Germany / etc if not. I'm obviously not local in Southern or Eastern Europe.

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