Re:Reflections on Stress and Long Hours on Wall Street
by crdb on Tuesday June 02, 2015 @02:23AM
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Well, if you care about money, you find something you're both good at and that you enjoy doing, and you try and teach yourself delayed gratification. Real, freedom-giving amounts take years, probably a decade or thereabouts. So, optimize for learning and enjoyment early on anyway.
Considering a large reason for picking my jobs used to be what % extra salary they paid, I wish I could go back and tell myself that.
I don't know a single suicide attempter, so can't comment on suicide as an out. I saw most humans adapt to stress pretty well. If you read WWII pilot biographies (e.g. First Light by Wellum, a classic!) they were under immense stress and yet just kept going until they had a breakdown, at which point they spent a few weeks in London to recuperate and headed back to the airfield. Humans are remarkably resilient...
Re:Reflections on Stress and Long Hours on Wall Street
by contingencies on Tuesday June 02, 2015 @02:37AM
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Hey, I spent most of my career in rural China ... now shopping for a house in southern France. I know what you mean :)
Re:Reflections on Stress and Long Hours on Wall Street
by crdb on Tuesday June 02, 2015 @05:41AM
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Get a castle! They're really cheap at the moment. They'll cost you about the same as a decent villa in a big city, involve a bit more driving and maintenance, but then you have a castle which can become your family home, with grounds, and probably designed by an architect who really knew what he was doing. Beats yet another modernist, out of place horror on a cliff that will probably collapse in 20 years...
I recommend http://www.patrice-besse.com/ which seems to have the best line-up and to know what they are doing.
I guess after all those stories, the question really boils down to motivation: how much do you care about money, and do you want to sacrifice other things to achieve stupendous amounts of it or are you happy with just 'enough'? Many people seem to find that ultimately life is too short to just stack up cash ignoring everything else for more than a short few years (if even that)... one needs companionship, interests, family, quality of life.
Health, both mental and physical, is definitely one thing to put ahead of cash, perversely particularly when you are young because you are essentially gambling with your entire future, and there's more of it to throw away. That said, you don't have family yet so suicide as described in the article probably seems a more acceptable out... one might assume that suicide rates lower with children.