If you cannot function in an environment without damaging yourself, then you need to deal with that first. If making accommodations for you is used to censor or affect the free speech of others then you are now the oppressor even if it not intentional on your part. Letting people use your condition to condemn or exile others is beyond wrong.

I once worked inside a social program and the first lesson is to heal. Painfully, that often means scar tissue. If you have trama from words, you need to deal with it, not hope the world will.