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Re:Selfish generosity, or the value of n+1 by ugh on Tuesday November 10, 2009 @06:15PM (#934164)
I’m way too impolite for this world. I would just ask if anyone wants the roll and if nobody says anything just take it.
Re:Selfish generosity, or the value of n+1 by mmt on Tuesday November 10, 2009 @06:37PM (#934219)
I'd consider the asking to be impolite (since it wastes time with a silly conversation), so I'd just take it, since, other than modest latency, it's not a scarce resource.
Re:Selfish generosity, or the value of n+1 by ugh on Tuesday November 10, 2009 @07:03PM (#934261)
The asking is pure signalling. Never once did anyone actually say to me that they wanted the last piece. Like adding please, saying good bye or thank you.
Re:Selfish generosity, or the value of n+1 by mmt on Friday November 13, 2009 @12:43PM (#940343)
I was just referencing the OP wrt conversation. However, I still consider it wasteful and impolite, since it's not merely a polite-sound attached to another message. It's a complete attention-getting, conversation-interrupting message in and of itself, with, apparently, no content.
Re:Selfish generosity, or the value of n+1 by duh on Tuesday November 10, 2009 @06:59PM (#934252)
For me it's a mix of not wanting to ask, and not wanting to ruin my appetite. These two combined forces are usually enough for me to leave it in the basket.