There are 3 kinds of "ask for help". 1) I'm tired with this code mess, please explain what methods I should call to do this task. 2) There are 3 ways to do this, one of them requires 3-d party service with monthly payments, second requires open source library and we need to check license, third is create our own solution and it will take some time. And I need manager's decision what way we can choose. 3) There is not enough data to complete the task, I need your time to give me data and unblock task.

I think only (1) is toxic and should be avoided.