I think the reason lightning doesn't perturb FM transmissions much is that lightning, being a source of additional energy in the receiver's passband, is an amplitude modulation interference source, whereas FM transmits its information by Frequency Modulation, which is nominally insensitive to AM EMI sources. Any amateur radio operator in the Midwest or Florida using AM on 144MHz will tell you that lightning for sure interferes with reception. With FM, not so much.