FYI, you are stronger than the average grad. People get pretty defensive when it comes to skills; nobody wants to believe they're below average if they're frequenting this site.

My one piece of advice: keep studying and practicing making beautiful software, in and out. Be careful who you take technical advice from; the industry right now is flush with cash, and thus there is a huge incentive to talk more than produce. Projects are often killed as quickly as they're started, causing people not to practice program design.