It sure did not take "no time," and much longer than an hour - longer than any other programming language I have attempted. The biggest stumbling blocks were syntactical. For example, there are three ways to declare a variable (let-in, let, and <-) and if you use the wrong one, you get a very unhelpful error message. The learning was not so much new concepts but instead things like how a "not in scope" error means you used a tab instead of spaces.
I completely agree, the underlying concepts are elegant, and powerful and enlightening and quite amazing. But you can understand the concepts perfectly and still not be able to write a line of Haskell. That's where most tutorials fall short.
I certainly remember having a hard time understanding this years ago, and my problem was probably the same as yours - the lack of nice books and tutorials (but things are a bit better now) as well as it all being new and foreign. I don't regret putting in the effort, though.
I also do not like the inconsistency in let-in vs. let (do notation), but I guess there's a good reason for that. <- is not strictly "variable assignment" but it seems superficially similar, though (if comparing to imperative languages).
But I don't think these issues can be "fixed" without turning Haskell into something completely different (e.g. something more like ML). Or do you have a good suggestion how to simplify this without making it worse?
It makes perfect sense to have do notation and desugaring it to use >>=. For "imperative" programming, do notation makes sense. Other times you'll be writing data processing "pipelines" where using >>= is more convenient. To give an example:
The above would be very clumsy to write in do notation (but not too difficult, that's what you'd do in an imperative language). But writing "guess the number" without do notation is also clumsy (but a good learning exercise).do notation and monad laws may be a foreign concept when coming from an imperative programming background, but it's also a neat an elegant concept that works very well in practice.