> The advocates just need to express it in a way that doesn't come across as "I'm enlightened; you're ignorant. Once you're enlightened, you'll do it my way."

But I think if you look at what they say, it really is as much the responsibility of the listener whether it is interpreted that way. Even the above quote, which I'm sure someone didn't say to you, can be interpreted as, "don't knock it until you've tried it".