Here's a nice reference for torque vs clamp force for a range of fasteners:
http://www.spaenaur.com/pdf/sectionD/D48.pdf
If you use a 1/2-13 fastener and torque to 75 ft-lbs it'll provide nearly 5 tons of clamp force (provided that said clamp force doesn't cause the wood to get squished). Now standard friction equation applies:
F = u * n
And wood-on-wood is between 0.25 and 0.5 so let's be conservative and use 0.25.
9000 lbs * 0.25 = 2250 lbs of frictional force keeping the one wooden member from sliding down the other one.
http://www.physlink.com/Reference/FrictionCoefficients.cfm
Here you can see the shear strength of a variety of bolts. You'll want to look at the second page under "single shear" as that's the application we're talking about.
https://nucor-fastener.com/Files/PDFs/TechDataSheets/TDS_013...
If you look here a 2x6 as a vertical column is only good to support about 900lbs so basically all of these equations and speculations are a joke. Grade 2, 1/4" bolts would have 2000lbs of shear strength each, so the only reason to go bigger is for a better interface to the lumber. But that can be largely negated so long as you have a decent amount of clamp force, for 900lbs you would need 3600lbs of clamp force at most. Which you can get with a single 5/16" fastener, and probably a pair of large washers to spread the force out to prevent crushing the wood.
https://courses.cit.cornell.edu/arch264/calculators/example7...
I've seen rings (like http://www.portlandbolt.com/products/others/splitrings.html) used to spread the load over a larger area of the wood, with a bolt keeping the wood members pressed against the ring.