you're correct about ALIAS (although practically, it doesn't matter: people are going to use the apex whether it's proper or not at this point). i'm more referring to other complex usually-proprietary capabilities of big dns providers, especially traffic routing features. routing semantics are generally not translatable across providers, and if you're using dns based routing (as most cdns, major web properties, etc are) then doing multi-network dns gets a lot harder. if you're amazon, you write and maintain a bunch of code to span providers. if you're not, the barrier to multi-network is high if you're doing more than static dns.

Yeah, that's a fair point. I'm not sure of a good fix for that, either.

You're right, but people want to get fancy with hosting at the apex (domain.com), even though it kills important functionality (CNAMES) forcing the adoption of hacks (ALIAS and ANAME records).