My anecdotal opinion is that more startups are cashing out for at least something because of acquihires and low-end mergers. I had a friend whose startup ran out of money, he accepted a few points of another startup in exchange for the assets of his failed startup and that startup that bought his assets ended up selling for $100M+ after less than a year earning him a decent return.
On another note - it would be pretty cool if someone did the equivalent of an index fund but for employee options. Get together with 5-6 of your friends at different startups and exchange options with each other to hedge the risk.
Another way to diversify your exposure is to get advisory roles at startups and pick up 25-100 b.p from 4-5 different companies for helping them out. This has worked out pretty well for myself.
There are some VCs who will also invest a small slice on your behalf if you introduce them to a deal they end up investing in, which can also work out pretty well if you are able to spot good investment deals, know the founders, etc.
For a culture where stock options, M&A and investing is so prevalent there really isn't much information out there in terms of making the right investment decisions and how to handle and work with money.
This is a pretty cool idea, but you'll have to find a lot of friends for it to work. Chances are, your 5-6 friends' options will also end up worthless. Then again, if we're talking about a pool of maybe 1,000 start-ups, then you need to believe that a diverse bundle of start-ups will outperform the S&P500 on average, otherwise it's pointless.
With that specific piece of advice, I'm trying to catch folks in Nebraska or Cleveland who are thinking about accepting a 9-5 job, not folks who are already in the Bay Area and familiar with buying a ticket in the startup lottery.
Of course when I worked for poptel (.5%) I would have been able to retire if we had been brought out by the co-op
BTW in the UK BT 's latest employee 5 year share save returned £60k tax free and that is a scheme available to every one.
It can be dense reading, but no one cares about your money more than you do, so it's your responsibility to make sure you understand what's going on. Doing that research saved me making more mistakes down the road.
Another common mistake with pre-IPO companies is to say "Wow, I get X thousand options!!" But you have to ask how many outstanding shares the company has. What really matters is what percentage of the company (your shares divided by total outstanding shares) is being offered to you.
It's really common for people to drastically overestimate the value of startup equity, or to just not understand the basic mechanics of it at all. In my experience people look at the face value of their options and are pretty clueless about how taxes (or even their strike price!) affect what they might actually wind up with.