> Similarly, look how hostile OpenBSD is toward FreeBSD about security designs (watch any Theo de Raadt presentation.) I almost never see any FreeBSD users taking pot shots at OpenBSD like that. Then look at the market share of both, and it makes more sense.

Well, watch the interview with Shawn Webb on BSD Now #52 http://www.bsdnow.tv/episodes/2014_08_27-reverse_takeover and think about his comments on OpenBSD. A lot of NIH in that interview. I don't think it is isolated to one side as you think.