> Google is opt-out tool and I don't see anyone complaining.
I see plenty of people complaining. That's why "Right to be forgotten" has so much traffic in EU.
> Instead of complaining, come up with ideas to make it better
People have suggested ways to make it better. The project has ignored them.
Yes, they probably should have emailed contributors less often but they've fixed it. Instead of complaining, come up with ideas to make it better... in the end, that's what this kind of community should be all about.
BTW, get your ego's checked... seems like it's a bit inflated... and if you are going to sue anyone, think about your federal income tax... because that money is actually stolen from you :P