Well not spam per exactly, but the ratio of messages is like a couple of orders of magnitude different. A woman's OKCupid inbox can hit the > 100 to 1000 message each week.

The difference is so large it is kinda of looked at by both genders with humor. (The side-by-side screenshots are pretty funny if you Google for them.) Also take a glance at http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dati...