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Re:What's the scariest thing in the world? Ask your teenage ... by Zmetta on Wednesday July 16, 2014 @03:12PM (#8043916)
I don't agree with your 3rd option, I think it encourages the incorrect notion that social status == happiness.
Re:What's the scariest thing in the world? Ask your teenage ... by ElComradio on Wednesday July 16, 2014 @03:19PM (#8043946)
Having a high social status may not bring happiness by itself but it certainly won't hurt.
Re:What's the scariest thing in the world? Ask your teenage ... by aetherson on Wednesday July 16, 2014 @06:01PM (#8044859)
When I was in early grade school, I was unpopular and a target for being picked on. I was unhappy about that and launched an in retrospect quite cynical campaign to increase my status. Basically, I targeted the highest-status boy in my class and devotedly worked to become his friend. I invited him to events and talked with him and laughed at his jokes. I didn't particularly like him, but I was successful and took up a role of second-highest status boy. Then I ruthlessly defended my position.

Second grade was kind of weird.

Anyhow, I have to say that as weird as I see it in retrospect, it worked pretty well for me. I didn't super enjoy maintaining my relationship with the other boy, but I liked it a lot more than being a low status person others picked on.

I make no grand claims to universality.

Re:What's the scariest thing in the world? Ask your teenage ... by quantized on Thursday July 17, 2014 @09:40AM (#8047425)
They're different concepts, obviously (hence the different names for them), but they correlate strongly.