I've looked at his code and that is not how it works. It uses boost::asio. You specify how many io_service threads to run. It is not 1 thread per connection. You could easily have 10000 connections spread across 4 threads for example. The threads that handle the connections are the same threads which run the callbacks. You wouldn't want threads being blocked by callbacks that take a long time to run. You'd want to pass those operations off to a different thread pool. So you would want to be able to do what I have suggested.

Also, you said this adds complexity and overhead. I dispute that it adds complexity. For most people: "return stuff" vs "res.send(stuff)". And I wouldn't assume that it would add any overhead either. If you disagree, let me know when you've read the code and understand how boost::asio works.