The 33-year-old virgin: Life without sex is only torturous if you let it be

Re:The 33-year-old virgin: Life without sex is only torturou... by haberdash on Monday June 02, 2014 @10:46PM (#7837883)

We're chasing each other's posts.

I find it interesting you're interested looking for the correct situation. Have you turned down prior situations where it didn't meet what you were looking for?

I'm quite a bit more broken than an average person—I don't think I could wait for a "right" anything.

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Re:The 33-year-old virgin: Life without sex is only torturou... by throwmeaway001 on Monday June 02, 2014 @11:36PM (#7838003)

Also a throwaway.

I am in the same situation as you. It took me a while to realise it, but I am not good at understanding certain cues and I have no idea what to do about it. I always need to correct my perceptions. E.g "That woman is probably being really friendly because she's just friendly. She's probably not interested." At one point I got quite depressed. Eventually, still curious about sex, I just hired a sex worker. It's legal here and I save a lot of money being single.

At this point I have mostly resigned myself to the reality that I'll probably be single for the rest of my life.

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