Re:Taking Credit for Success
by jmzbond on Thursday May 08, 2014 @01:30PM
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I agree, but would add a caveat. I feel like many Millennials have grown up in a world where we were so afraid of failure we over-emphasized success. Everyone is a winner, everyone gets a sticker of some kind.
As many times as I see people not wallowing in their success, I see people who wallow in it way too much. A balance is really important to ensure that one success doesn't derail you or over-inflate your ego too much that you become, by consequence, more sensitive to risk and afraid to fail.
Re:Taking Credit for Success
by ilikescience on Friday May 09, 2014 @10:38AM
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I think the difference might be in giving yourself a pat on the back, as opposed to looking to everyone around you to validate your success. The 'everyone gets a sticker' mentality is totally harmful. That's why it's important to realize success on your own terms — you don't need the sticker.
Re:Taking Credit for Success
by spiritplumber on Thursday May 08, 2014 @12:16PM
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This is excellent advice... the problem occurs when someone louder claims success for your work. It can be a bigger company, or it can simply be someone who, due to not spending any time inventing, has more time for self-promotion.
I haven't found a non-violent solution for this yet; timestamped video doesn't seem to work, nor do patents.
Re:Taking Credit for Success
by locopati on Thursday May 08, 2014 @01:16PM
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What works for me is accepting that my idea is out there doing it's thing (even if someone else stole it). On a plus side, if things go dramatically wrong, the fingers aren't going to point at me.
As many times as I see people not wallowing in their success, I see people who wallow in it way too much. A balance is really important to ensure that one success doesn't derail you or over-inflate your ego too much that you become, by consequence, more sensitive to risk and afraid to fail.
I haven't found a non-violent solution for this yet; timestamped video doesn't seem to work, nor do patents.
There has to be SOME success in between failures. There has to be some recognition of success. Otherwise one goes mad.