I agree. I think you've overstated how many people take that position, but I agree. By the same token, I find it unfortunate when a person turns "TDD doesn't work for me" into "TDD is a bad idea", which DHH has certainly and explicitly said in his articles on the topic. His title "TDD is dead" simply makes one group of people cheer mindlessly and another group roll their eyes. It doesn't help the conversation.

That said, I understand meeting extremism with extremism. I don't think it works, but I understand it.