The shy connector: How to get strangers to talk to you

Re:The shy connector: How to get strangers to talk to you by antaeos on Wednesday August 12, 2009 @04:21AM (#757592)

I second this. People seem to come with a built-in affinity for probing just how amazing they are. Depending on your agenda, all you really have to do is help them explore that space.

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Re:The shy connector: How to get strangers to talk to you by jamesbritt on Wednesday August 12, 2009 @01:55PM (#758710)

Sometimes I put myself in the "interviewing for a magazine" mindset to keep me rolling.

I confess that encouraging people to talk about themselves when instead I could be talking about me is a habit I keep working to develop.

Do geeks have a greater tendency to talk about themselves than the general population, or is this pretty much everybody?

I do think that geeks have a warped idea about what normal people will think interesting. :)

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