Roll eyes. Men get treated as eye candy too. Honestly, if you do that at work, it doesn't matter who you are, you are going to get gawked at.

Most of this seemed like a poor performer who socialized too much at work. The problem was the crazy wife. Two bad drivers meet at an intersection..

And for people saying the guys don't get worked over in pull requests or have their code passively aggressively reverted, all I can say is LOL.