I don't really think the childish language helps. There's a culture of "you are an asshole because I say you're an asshole and if you disagree you're an asshole because my views are universally accepted truths" that dampens grown-up discourse.

Evidently, from the fact this thread exists:

- The concept that people should not disclose life changing circumstances to investors is not universally accepted.

- Nor does wishing to be informed of material facts affecting an investment mean one hates women.