I read a few blogs as well as subreddits, but at least for now, lack the skill to do real 'art' myself.

A program would be an interesting exercise, I guess.

As for 'inappropriate' advertising to women, I'd say that stuff shouldn't /not/exist any more than ones pitched towards any other specific group too, but the neutral products should be done in a way not to exclude anyone, with the expectation that people will eventually gravitate towards them as they serve different functions - for people already engaged vs getting that initial engagement.