> I'd probably call you all martians out of disrespect to a dumb design decision
Nope, the equivalent what you did is use the "white pronoun" for a black person.
As a sophistry technique to avoid discussion of the actual issue, focus on irrelevant detail works pretty well.
If our shared language was poorly designed enough to have racially segregated pronouns as opposed to gender segregated pronouns (don't laugh, its an almost equally stupid design decision) I'd probably call you all martians out of disrespect to a dumb design decision not because you're all actually from mars.
Its not because the website authors profile pics make them look manlier than myself or I admire their beards or anything dumb like that.
TLDR: Doesn't mean much.