For me OO is not the big reason to use smalltalk. For me the biggest reason is the whole live coding environment which is a big plus for workflow and speed of development. But maybe other smalltalkers could chime in with features I am not aware of.
Also Pharo has Pooldictionaries , which are doing the same thing Traits are doing for methods , for instance variables. Probably Ruby has something similar too.
I really think highly of Ruby , its a really powerful language. The reason why I chose python instead is that I can't stand the "Pearl" syntax. All these weird symbols etc. Definitely not my thing and make code less readable to me.
But as a language Ruby looks great to me. So definitely would not recommend against learning it :)
Traits seem like a great idea, but the only other language where I've seen it under the Smalltalk name of "trait" is... brace yourself :) ...PHP 5.4+.
Check out the original paper and they should become apparent:
http://web.cecs.pdx.edu/~black/publications/TR_CSE_02-013.pd...
http://pharo.gemtalksystems.com/book/LanguageAndLibraries/Tr...