> I don't get why writers try to abuse copyright law to artificially constrain the disbursement of their material
That's not an abuse of copyright law, that's it's exact purpose.
> Instead, I'd attach a donation link [...]
Just because you can make up numbers where this is successful doesn't mean it would be successful, or give any insight into the situations that are most amenable to it.
Instead, I'd attach a donation link, except rather than say "please give me $$ for beer" I'd say "please give me $$ so I can write my next book rather than sweep floors". Charge for the expense, and with the exception of an initial ice breaker to get visibility, you have access to the same potential capital, except more, because it is a variable rate. You could see your big fans throwing thousands at you a piece. Even with a 1% conversion rate, having 1000x the audience because your material is free and open would mean more long term sustainability.
I'm not saying don't pay for the dead tree that cost 50c to chop and 30c to print on, that has a marginal cost per unit. But when you are passing around digital material all the time, it is absurd to be trying to bill per unit like its scarce.