Re:Programmers: Before you turn 40, get a plan B
by SapphireSun on Wednesday June 10, 2009 @03:57AM
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Thank you! I've felt exactly this way. It's rare that someone expresses it so well.
Re:Programmers: Before you turn 40, get a plan B
by e4m on Wednesday June 10, 2009 @09:37AM
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Amen. The best decisions of my life were spur of the moment ones. You can't generalize. People are vastly different from one another. Two guys with the same degree from the same school will have varying levels of success in life. Personality and initiative are not taught in school... they can't be.
I left corporate world precisely because I felt "planning my career", as I was encouraged to do, was an absolute false way to live (for me). I couldn't reconcile the absurdity of it with the severity of the consequences if I didn't do it. But the consequences are all socially constructed, and they go away as soon as you change your mentality.
When I think of my heroes, I don't think of people who've hedged their bets here or there - they just did what they felt they had to.