Forgive me, I hate to be a pedantic bastard or take away from your message; but something that's bothered me about a few of my acquaintances since grade school is their inability to understand the difference between lend and borrow.

- If you have something that someone else wishes to use, you lend it to them.

- If someone else has something that you wish to use, you borrow it from them.

I don't know why this in particular has bothered me so much, it's just a small thing. Apologies for any offence, none intended.

You know what? I wrote borrow but changed it to lend. I guess I will never learn (memorize) it. Something like the difference between schwul und schwül (gay vs. humid). My English girl friend could never tell which is which and some days, the weather was gay.

I quite like that I think I'm gonna steal it. From henceforth the weather will always be gay :D

FWIW borrow was correct in this case

I wasn't trying to be offensive... but rather, helpful. I hope I didn't offend you by pointing it out.