> ... women should compete with men fairly, all the time... Except when they want to stop competing and get married.

There are a number of problems with your post, but this one stands out. When a woman marries a man, the competition doesn't end, it's just starting. Many women don't plan to marry well, they plan to divorce well.

Not judging, just saying. Marriage is not the absence of competition, it's competition taken to a new height -- or do I mean depth?