I have a good resume and a chill work place (kinda). So I work 8 hours mostly. If I fear that they'll get mad that I'm not working hard enough then fuck it, I'm finding another job. My career is not going to take over and force me to sacrifice my life.

But I chose to live nearby a university so I go to Starbuck and stuff and talk to students there, mostly women.

On Friday and Sat I go out and hit on women at clubs. Shrug. I'm also going to go to the University gym twice a week and take some improv and probably vocal coach. I also chose to stay in touch and live nearby an area where my friends are within a 50 miles radius.

Spend those money on hobbies and building your life.