Re:Kids can't use computers, and why it should worry you
by pekk on Friday August 09, 2013 @03:18PM
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Almost nobody wants to listen to your lecture. They certainly aren't going to repeat it to others! They want you to do it for them, because it is beneath them.
Re:Kids can't use computers, and why it should worry you
by bennyg on Friday August 09, 2013 @03:36PM
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I couldn't disagree more. It's not beneath anybody, and people ask for help all the time - some things that seem daunting or difficult are actually easy and vice versa. You prescribe too much to others' personalities without actually knowing them, and think they do the same to you.
What if I told you that you were wrong in doing so?
Re:Kids can't use computers, and why it should worry you
by blinks on Friday August 09, 2013 @06:30PM
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I would ask if you had ever worked in IT.
There is a reason such jobs turn people into curmudgeons. It's not like they all started that way. You attempt to give a simple explanation as to what you're doing, but as soon as you say anything about their computer, they assume it's technical and tune out.
There are definitely people that would come into the office and learn how you fixed things, and those people were wonderful. Few and far between, though.
Re:Kids can't use computers, and why it should worry you
by icebraining on Friday August 09, 2013 @03:45PM
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I envy you. I know exactly one "non-geek" person who would really listen to that kind of explanation. Everyone else I've helped was happy that I fixed the issue, but couldn't care less about why it broke or how to fix it.
Re:Kids can't use computers, and why it should worry you
by BWStearns on Friday August 09, 2013 @04:18PM
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The people I like enough to try to help tend to be people who like me enough to at least give it a go (and put up with me :). Example: my girlfriend who has never been interested in tech has actually become other people's go-to person for all things troubleshooting. After a while she just saw how the google and RTFM combo worked and she started doing that instead of asking me. Now she only asks me if there's something totally hosed.
Still inexcusable, especially as an educator. Here's what I would of done:
"Oh you can't connect to the internet? Watch this. See the little icon at the top that looks like ripples going up? This one? That's the hub for any wireless networking connection - just click it and pick an option. Each of those options is a network to connect to. The ones with little locks next to them means you need a password to connect. If you're ever having internet problems on your laptop, just check this icon out and see if you're connected." Then fix the situation for them. You still offered a solution, and they'll probably never come to you for help with that again - and whenever they hear a friend, they'll repeat it. It's really not complicated to explain AND fix the problem at the same time.