Thank you, I too agree it is a lot of ask for from a person at this age... But how should I open him up more? He has always been a very quiet person, most friends don't know much about him. And from talking to him i found out he just has secrets after secrets. I respect him and will not be telling these secrets to anyone else as I promised. But it's quite difficult to imagine how he's been holding all these to himself for the whole time, without talking to anyone... He also tends to pull himself away from everyone, pretending he doesn't care for anything or anyone, but I know he does care, I really do =(