If you don't want to do that, don't. I'd never start the prototype with that functionality, for instance. But when you discover that you need it, Go permits it in a way that Python or Perl do not. Go is GC'ed and you are free to use that to the extent you want, but it's easier to escape from the GC than it is in many GC'ed languages. It may not be obvious from a casual reading of the spec, but there's a lot of ways around garbage in Go. Not like, say, Rust, and certainly not the same level of Raw Unstoppable Power as C++ (at a corresponding huge complexity cost), but it's a very interesting middle ground.
Note that if you were writing groupcache in Java, you'd probably end up doing the same thing and just allocating an expanse of bytes which you manage yourself.
I've often heard people say things that imply that "proper" GC's don't behave like whatever badness I'm experiencing currently. Can you give me an example of a Garbage collector that I could safely use for a large heap of small cached (ie. long lifetimes) objects without a significant throughput penalty and with deterministic latencies (ie., no random full system pauses) over, say, a tcmalloc based hand-allocated/free'd system ?
Nothing stops you, except: - The determination NOT to do something the computer can do - Previous exposure to a proper, modern GC - The fact that you used Go to get away from this kind of shit in the first place