Re:A Line Of Cards Tells Millennials Living With Mom and Dad...
by scarmig on Friday May 24, 2013 @01:52PM
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Probably too late for anyone else to see this, but how many families in the USA handle relations seems utterly warped to me.
Perhaps the two biggest lifecycle stages--having children and growing old--we deal with absolutely terribly. Young couples go through many sleepless nights taking care of kids, and struggle to find a way to care for them while still maintaining a connection with the outside world. Old people have a different problem: many face total social isolation, feel great sadness at not being connected with their children, and want some way to feel productive. (Indeed, one of the best predictors of year-on-year survival rates is number of friends an old person has.)
They're two problems that seem to me to almost solve one another: why not have older generations help more with the kids? Not like it's a unique solution either, because it's been done pretty much everywhere until recent times.
Perhaps the two biggest lifecycle stages--having children and growing old--we deal with absolutely terribly. Young couples go through many sleepless nights taking care of kids, and struggle to find a way to care for them while still maintaining a connection with the outside world. Old people have a different problem: many face total social isolation, feel great sadness at not being connected with their children, and want some way to feel productive. (Indeed, one of the best predictors of year-on-year survival rates is number of friends an old person has.)
They're two problems that seem to me to almost solve one another: why not have older generations help more with the kids? Not like it's a unique solution either, because it's been done pretty much everywhere until recent times.