Reminds me of the piano player at Nordstrom's who worked 27 years and put his kids through college. Not something most of us would want to do, but definitely the American Dream by a lot of definitions.
http://www.thenewstribune.com/2013/01/27/2452005/nordstrom-p...
The American dream must surely be an exceptional one, to justify some exceptional hardships?
Meanwhile in europe they eat chocolate for breakfast and sleep in the afternoon.
"Want a family in addition to work demands? Get ready to work as hard as you possibly can."
Corporate employment is not the American Dream. It's a sign that the "Dream" is over.
The good news is that 95% of historical progress comes from the most talented people (the "cognitive 1%", that Jefferson called the "natural aristocrats") overthrowing the entrenched elite. This time around, that's us. We are the ones who'll come up with what replaces VC-istan.
VC-istan isn't that terrible. Neither was George III. (No, I'm not suggesting we use violence as was done in 1775-83. Electoral systems and markets are designed to allow nonviolent overthrow. I'm suggesting we outperform them on the market regarding the use of talent.)
The bad news is that when the rising elite wins, they have an onerous tendency to become hypocritical (see: American slavery from 1776-1865, company towns and Pinkertons from 1866-1939, the failure of Fordist paternalism beginning in the late '70s, and the failure of VC-istan to provide something better than regular old Corporate America circa now). We need to agree not to do that. Historical cycles run faster now and if whatever we build sucks as much as what we replace, then we'll see it torn down within our lifetimes.
It's also not the "American Dream" anymore because whatever we are is trans-national.
"work as hard as you possibly can, and you will be able to raise a family"
That is an enormous come down.