Vim users like vim for some legitimate reasons (e.g. ubiquity) and some illegitimate reasons (e.g. speed). But to my eyes, it's typically the users of heavy IDEs who seem to be insecure in their choice, to the point that they get offended by the fact that vim works for others. Take marssaxman as a case in point.
As a clojure hobbyist, Light Table might one day be amazing. But it's not yet.
Additionally, your tools shouldn't define you as a programmer, and yet I often see people getting shamed for using an IDE instead of vim/emacs/whatever.
I've used IDEs, a lot. And not decades ago, I try new IDEs out all the time. When I write Jenkins plugins it's in NetBeans. I have tried out SublimeText 2 quite a bit. I used to write games so I spent all my time in Visual Studio with Visual Assist X.
Given all that, when I want to write some C++ I fire up vim. Not because I'm unaware of all the IDEs out there and all they can do. But because I'm very efficient using vim, find, grep, sed/awk, etc.
It's not offensive to wonder why such old tools are still so popular, but it's offensive to assume that they're popular because their users are ignorant. Maybe you just haven't gotten it yet (and won't). Or maybe we just have different use-cases. The vim commands obviously aren't obscure to me since I know them.
I agree that your tools shouldn't define you as a programmer. Clearly I wouldn't shame anyone for using an IDE, since I do all the time when it makes sense to. The problem is that many IDE users just can't accept that I use vim because I work well in it, not because I think it's trendy. I can work well in any environment you throw me into, because 90% chance it has vi, and otherwise it has Notepad. Most VisualStudio users can't say the same. Fine, they don't think that's an important skill, I can accept that, just don't tell me it's not important to me.
"There is also a bird there [in the bald and barren north], named P'eng, with a back like Mount T'ai and wings like clouds filling the sky. He beats the whirlwind, leaps into the air, and rises up ninety thousand li, cutting through the clouds and mist, shouldering the blue sky, and then he turns his eyes south and prepares to journey to the southern darkness.
"The little quail laughs at him, saying, 'Where does he think he's going? I give a great leap and fly up, but I never get more than ten or twelve yards before I come down fluttering among the weeds and brambles. And that's the best kind of flying anyway! Where does he think he's going?' Such is the difference between big and little."
http://terebess.hu/english/chuangtzu.html#1
I actually agree with marssaxman (and I'm not certain that Chuang Tzu is equating big with good and little with bad), but clearly whether the choice of editor is significant is a question of perspective, and everybody is going to have a different one. I used to care quite a bit about editors. Now I see a lot of our industry tool fetishism as rather unproductive. But I have seen people use the hell out of Vim and it's really quite impressive. Just not a skill I personally feel a strong need to develop.