Over the time, the increase in divorce rate has has a lot to do with (personal) freedom, education and exposure especially of women; and not to the mention the era of women-emancipation and after.
Each period in the article correlates with women's status in society at the time, and is mentioned in there.
It would be interesting to know what were the % of divorces where women initiated it(it's recorded, right?).
http://www.divorce-lawyer-source.com/faq/emotional/who-initi...
Unfortunately the link does not provide further link to sources, but it claims it comes from US census.
I had seen the US census links, and it is correct, also the same is true in Brazil (our laste census resulted in also about 70% of women initiating divorce with no provided reason). Later if I have time I will edit this post to post the census links.
Your parents and grand parents grew up in a time when divorce wasn't culturally acceptable and likely just "toughed it out".
http://divorce.lovetoknow.com/Historical_Divorce_Rate_Statis...