for all those who don't speak Malayalam (the language of Kerala) translation => "get lost you son of a bitch"
"patti chetteh kazhidhe thendi"
translation => Dog, scum, donkey, beggar!
fwiw, I think such language is inappropriate on a public forum , particularly HN, but to flag or delete something one should know what is being said.
I find the device of slipping into a different language (here Malayalam)from the commonly understood one (English) to send a "private message" (in this case, abuse unfortunately) interesting, though (strictly imo) that is a violation of the commonly understood (unspoken) rules of discourse.
Sex at college is a different aspect. Its true that the social setup doesn't encourage sex while you are at college. But i think the reason is not just an 'orthodox view' of Keralaites. Males mostly stay with parents until they finish college(&& get a job) and are fully dependent on parents financially.'Work while you study' is almost non-existant here. Perhaps girls just dont want to take the risk of hanging out with someone who doesn't have any proven earning potential(yet). At the end of the day, getting a girl depends on how you approach the girl !
Sorry to hear that you had bad experiences with 'ragging' at college. I never had any such issues. Infact, my seniors were very helpful throughout my college life.
I see that you created an account just to make that comment with personal insults against me. Try sticking on to the guidelines and keep HN a nice place: http://ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
Earning potential = sex. No, seriously.
Helpful hint: presenting an attitude of "I hate you but want to sleep with you cause I'm so horny" is not a winning strategy. I've had better success with Kerala girls than you (and I'm not Indian), so I'm pretty sure your problem is attitude.
(Maybe I'm taking the comment a little personally. My gf is from Kochi, cut me some slack. )
We can understand your 'Culture' from the language you use in public forums like this.
Being polite will not hurt you much.