Nope. You continue to read what you want my statements to read. The stuff you quoted can only be interpreted as telling him what to do by twisting it around. No other way.

I can look at someone smoking and say "I think that is wrong because of...". That does not, in any way, that I am trying to force or tell the person not to smoke. Now, you might choose to read it that way but that doesn't change what it says.

You clearly only want to disagree with me for the sport of it so I'll agree to disagree and give you the last word because it seems you need to win. Go for it. The stage is yours.